Thursday, January 17, 2013
More Harris Family Adventures in Zhengzhou
Samantha and I can now check off another item from our bucket list - "take your sick daughter to the hospital in a foreign country where you can't speak the language." Of course I am joking now since everything is fine with Kaori, but really this is a parent's worst nigtmare.
Before our trip, Samantha was so diligent about preparing medicine for Cuyler for any contingency we might encounter with Cuyler leaving the orphanage. It did not cross our minds that Kaori would be the one needing medical care!
Kaori was running a temp of over 104 and we knew her body was fighting something. We consulted with our guide Rita that we needed to get to a hospital. Luckily there is a hospital within walking distance of the hotel. So Cuyler stayed with Gmama and Pop while we hiked over to the hospital. My mind was racing with thoughts like what if they want to keep her overnight? How do we get Kaori back to the states ASAP if we need to leave? The hospital experience was bizarre to say the least. We were in a waiting area on the 3rd floor for the pediatric dr to return to her office to see Kaori. An older Chinese lady started scolding us for not having Kaori in enough layers of clothes and that her coat was not zipped. Of course to us it felt like an oven in the room - but again they do things differently over here. The older lady was speaking in Chinese but I could understand her very clearly - she was saying "Of course your daughter is sick you stuipid idiot! You can't even dress her properly! Idiot!" Ok maybe she was not that harsh but that was the general sentiment. I could see the "mama bear" look in Samantha's eyes and that she was ready to pounce on everyone and tell them to shut up and leave us alone. Everyone stood around us staring at Kaori and I could feel them judging us - it was just a very bizarre moment. Then the dr. returned. Normally in the states the dr sees you behind closed doors. Not in China. Everyone in the waiting room now piled into the dr. office to watch the episode unfold. Then they pricked K's finger for blood and then came the prognosis. Kaori has a bacterial infection and they asked us if we wanted an IV or antibiotic medicine. We chose the medicine. We survived and thank God Rita was with us the whole time translating and guiding us thru the hospital. I will say this as a positive - the whole hospital trip only cost us around $12 US Dollars and that included the medicine. Praise God Kaori is acting perfectly fine, the fever is under control. Just another day in China!
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Timeline
July 20, 2009 - Received home study packet and began paper work.
July 21, 2009 - Dropped off Kaori's immunization verification form for home study.
July 27, 2009 - Mailed in ATWA application, completed local background checks and completed Samantha's medical exam.
August 6, 2009 - Home Study visit completed.
August 9, 2009 - Mailed our I600-A to USCIS.
September 8, 2009 - Home Study Draft emailed to Lesley
September 11, 2009 - USCIS Fingerprints complete
September 18, 2009 - I600A application complete. Homestudy finalized.
September 22, 2009 - USCIS requesting further evidence.
October 7, 2009 - 171-H approval arrived!
October 20, 2009 - Mailed dossier to ATWA
October 22, 2009 - Dossier received!
November 12, 2009 - Mailed our photo album to ATWA
November 16, 2009 - Photo book received.
November 29, 2009 - Photo book traveled to Japan.
August 2010 - Moved to Georgia
September 13, 2010 - Mailed form off to be re-fingerprinted by the United States. Time to update!
September 22, 2010 - mailed letter to Fulton County to confirm emergency call history.
October 3 - Homestudy home visit
October 6 - picked up results from TB test, drug test, Urine sample, medical exam.
October 15 - All new documents for the update have been turned in.
October 20, 2010 - First draft of update emailed to ATWA for review.
October 23, 2010 - Received our appointment notices in the mail.
October 27 - Had fingerprints done early for the 171H
October 28 - Received final copies of updated homestudy.
January 2011 - New album and photos of the decorated nursery arrived in Japan.
February 2, 2011 - mailed in extension form to USCIS for our I600A.
April 1, 2011 - Mailed new birthmother letter to ATWA and ordered new photo albums.
April 12, 2011 - ATWA mailed all new things to Taz in Japan.
November 16, 2011 - Mailed application to CCAI
December 2011 - Began working on all the documents for our dossier.
WE WAITED AND WAITED WITH NO NEWS UNTIL OCTOBER 2012. GOD WAS NUDGING OUR HEARTS EVER SO GENTLY AND THEN NOT SO GENTLY TO BEGIN A PROGRAM WITH CHINA.
July 2012 - We have a son!!!
October 17 2012 - Request for update sent to orphanege.
October 27 2012 - LOA received!
October 29 2012 - LOA signed and returned to CCAI along with I800 and travel documents. Estimated travel dates (sometime in Jan. 2013)
December 28 - Travel dates sent! We are to be in Beijing on January 10 and we meet Cuyler on the 14th! Yahoo!

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